I was struck by lightning last night. Left me a bit speechless for a moment, but I have found my voice again, and I need to share my experience with you.
I have gone to church pretty much all my life. Sometimes with more regularity than others, truth be told. When I was a child I went to a fairly good sized church that was just referred to as "the Protestant church," as opposed to "the Catholic church" down the road. I was a kid and didn't really care. All I knew is that's where my friends who didn't go to the Catholic church went. In that church they had a huge (in my young eyes) wing that housed classrooms and one very large room referred to as Fellowship Hall. As you may imagine, many different kinds of events were held there. I remember being so glad we had a place like that to hang out after church, on Friday nights, and whenever there were events. It was a good place for kids to be.
As I got a little older I chose to go to another church. They had a really cool pastor, which is very important when you are 12. I guess we had a youth group because we all hung out together and he would take us places as a group. He'd let us come and hang out at his house from time to time. Frankly, it wasn't until then that I really started to begin to understand what church was about and to learn about Jesus.
As many teens and 20-somethings do, as I grew up, I also grew away from the church. I might go from time to time with a friend, but it was not a regular part of my life. When I did visit those churches there was usually something that I liked, besides hanging out with my friends. Beautiful stained glass windows, great music, meaningful Bible studies, fellowship with others.
Eventually, I married and was blessed to be matched up with a man who places a high priority on his faith. I began to attend much more regularly. We moved around a bit, but each church seemed to offer something. A strong pastor, a new children's building, a variety of studies, friendships, something.
Fast forward many years and many churches later, and here we are at Chesapeake Church. We started attending Chesapeake 5 years ago when we first moved to the area. It was the first church we visited and we liked what it offered. A nice location, a strong pastoral team, studies, fellowship, opportunities to serve, and so much more.
I am 55 years old. I have attended multiple churches and had more than a few ah-ha moments in my life. And Saturday night was no exception. But this was truly more like a lightning bolt. Chesapeake Church is in the midst of big things. More than a year ago, a Saturday night service was added to accommodate those who are unable to attend on Sunday but also because our two Sunday services were filled to overflowing, literally. We have recently started construction to expand our church to better accommodate the growth we continue to see. We have all had the opportunity to attend Home Vision events to learn more about how Chesapeake is growing and how we are responding to what is obviously God working in our midst. This week we will hold a prayer event regarding this growth and expansion and our ability to go where God is leading us. There are nights set apart just for families to pray together. Parents, grandparents, and children can join together, and pray together. Last night, in regard to that prayer event, Robert said, "The future of our church will be praying for the future of our church."
*insert lighting bolt, flash of light, and loud boom here*
The future of our church. Will be praying for the future of our church. Did that give you chills? It did me. It was my lightning bolt moment. I still get verklempt when I think about it. Not just because we have hundreds of children who will age out of our children's program and move into the auditorium with "the big kids." Not just because last weekend, over three services, we had more than 1,500 people come to worship. But because for every single church I ever attended a service, worshiped God, sang a song, watched a drama, hung out with my friends over the past 55 years, it was because someone cared about the future. Cared about those who would come after them. Cared about a legacy.
I probably won't be here in 55 years, but I am beyond excited to be a part of the future of Chesapeake Church. My children's children, their children, and children further out than I can even imagine will have a place to worship and fellowship and hang out and study and sing and do dramas and drink coffee and and and.... because I was here. I am just a speck. But I can make a difference.
Sunday, January 12, 2014
Saturday, November 24, 2012
The Cost of Eating Clean
I wanted to put together a meal plan that would show my readers that eating clean doesn't have to mean breaking the bank. I have built menus. I have made grocery lists. And I think the menu and the lists are probably either on the coffee table or in the bottom of my purse. Because, let's face it, I like to take short cuts. If you read my Facebook page, Clean Eating -- It's a Lifestyle, that becomes very apparent. I don't make up my own recipes very often. I don't even adapt other people's recipes. I just use recipes, pretty much as written, and if they taste good I share them with you. And if they are complicated, forget it. You won't see it on my page!
So instead of actually costing out the menu, as I had planned, I will just share with you the basics. So, first of all, there are some things that you really need to buy up front. The first trip to the store is going to be pretty pricey, but most of these things will last you quite a while. And do shop around for price. There are wide differences in prices on some things between Whole Foods, Trader Joe's, and your local Giant (or whatever). The things you have to have in your clean kitchen include whole wheat flour and whole wheat pastry flour (if you use wheat), coconut flour (relax, most recipes call for small quantities), almond flour, coconut oil, coconut crystals, honey (get some local stuff), blackstrap molasses, sea salt.
Now that you have all this stuff, pour through the web sites. I personally love www.paleomg.com, www.thegraciouspantry.com, and www.thenakedkitchen.com, although I am also starting to use recipes from some others. Think about how you can use ingredients from one meal in another. For instance, Sunday we will have a pot roast. Monday we will have grilled chicken and pineapple. Tuesday is barbecue beef night -- made with leftover pot roast, and Wednesday is barbecue chicken and pineapple pizza (again, leftovers from a previous night). I will also use leftover meat (chicken or beef) to make soup. I think you get the idea.
It will be expensive at times, depending on what's in season, but try to be creative and thoughtful about your menus. And, for goodness sake, please do make a menu. When you are purchasing fresh ingredients, you really have to have a plan for using them so they don't go to waste. Once you get the hang of it and find some recipes you really like, it will get cheaper. Where we live, produce tends to be pretty expensive. Heck, everything is expensive here! But when we go to the in-law's, we have found that we can get some things quite a bit cheaper. Not cheap enough to make a special trip (it is more than two hours away), but worth it to stock up when we are out that way. Maybe you are fortunate enough to have a local farm nearby where you can buy produce or meat. Definitely take advantage of it! Next year I hope I can make the time to do more canning and freezing when things are in season!
The holidays are upon us and I know it might be tough to pass up some of our favorites. But keep watching my Facebook page and my blog. I hope to share some tips with you to help make it easier for you and for me to get through this season CLEAN!
Monday, July 30, 2012
It's a lifestyle!
Anyone who knows me well also knows that I haven't slept well in years. A "good" night's sleep for me was only waking up a few times and being able to get back to sleep within an hour. Many nights I would be awake for hours, unable to get back to sleep and wanting only that. So I somehow survived on an average of three or four hours a night for days on end. Sleep eluded me, and I thought that was just how I was wired.
This past March, after a lot of research and talks with family who know about these kind of things, I decided to switch to "clean eating." Eating clean just means that you eat food as close to its natural state as possible. So no processed foods, no chemicals or additives. No refined sugars, no white flour. In our pre-packaged world that sounds pretty hard, doesn't it? Well, I found that it wasn't. Sure, it takes a little more planning, and I definitely have to actually cook more often. But especially after I got used to it and found some quick go to recipes, I have found that it doesn't have to be difficult. Of course, summer time makes it easier because there is so much fresh produce to be had. But we're going to figure out how to keep this going all winter, too!
Okay, so what does that have to do with sleeping? Everything! Since we started eating clean, I sleep through the night! Through the night! I might still wake up occasionally and look at the clock but then I am right back to sleep. But mostly, I just sleep four 7 or 8 hours. Oh bliss!!! I am refreshed in the morning instead of dragging around. Seriously, if you are a bad sleeper, you know how much you yearn for that feeling!
So, you interested? You want to try this clean eating thing? Some people dip their toe in and ease into it. Not me! It's all or nothing with me. But you can go more slowly. Whatever works for you.
So I found www.TheNakedKitchen.com and that's my main resource for meal planning. Check it out. You don't have to do all your shopping at Whole Foods either. It's a great store and has lots of options, but something else my friends know about me is that I'm cheap. So I buy bulk steel cut oats at Whole Foods, because they have the best price. But the majority of our food comes from Trader Joe's, Giant, and the local Farmer's Market. But you can do this just shopping at your local Piggly-Wiggly too.
So maybe you've heard, shop the perimeter. That just means don't go in the center where all the packaged stuff is. Buy fresh produce. If you can't get fresh, buy frozen. And read the labels. The easiest thing to consider is if it has more than 5 ingredients, don't even bother trying to sound out all those words. Here's an excerpt from www.thegraciouspantry.com that sums it up well.
One other thing about eating... I read that you should pair a protein with your complex carb when you eat. Always. So an apple with a piece of cheese, a handful of almonds with some berries for a snack. For meals, grilled chicken with your grilled veggies, black beans with brown rice, that kind of thing. Pretty easy to remember! We even eat pizza, baked goods, and treats. We just have learned to make them in a different way. A whole wheat pizza with chicken, barbecue sauce, fresh pineapple, fresh mozzarella and red onion... how does that sound?!
Do you have to exercise? Well, eating clean isn't about that, but because I feel better (I really do!) I have the energy to get out and walk. And that's my exercise. I try to walk about 3 miles a day. Usually half of that at lunch time and the other half after work. Some days I might walk a little more, and sometimes I do less. Occasionally not at all, but I try to limit those days. I know I need to add some other exercise to my routine but for now, this is what I am getting into my schedule.
So what are the benefits of eating clean? I sleep; I have energy; and oh yeah, I lost 17 pounds and my husband lost 30. (*Update 4 OCT - I have now lost 23pounds!) We lost it slowly - a pound or so a week. And we eat three meals and two or three snacks a day. Every day. And we don't eat any cardboard fake diet foods. Just whole, nutritious stuff. It's awesome!
People see me and notice the weight loss and the first thing they ask is how I did it. Well, I didn't do it by "going on a diet." I did it by making a lifestyle change. Eating clean is not a quick fix diet. Don't expect that. It's just a different - better - way of eating. I had heard for years that you can't diet, you have to change how you eat. I admit, I never really understood that. Now, I do. I totally get it! Do we ever "cheat"? Yep. Occasionally. Some information I've read says you can cheat once a week. I would say I cheat more like once a month if that, and then it's just one thing, not a whole meal. That's why it's a lifestyle... you make it work with your life.
This past March, after a lot of research and talks with family who know about these kind of things, I decided to switch to "clean eating." Eating clean just means that you eat food as close to its natural state as possible. So no processed foods, no chemicals or additives. No refined sugars, no white flour. In our pre-packaged world that sounds pretty hard, doesn't it? Well, I found that it wasn't. Sure, it takes a little more planning, and I definitely have to actually cook more often. But especially after I got used to it and found some quick go to recipes, I have found that it doesn't have to be difficult. Of course, summer time makes it easier because there is so much fresh produce to be had. But we're going to figure out how to keep this going all winter, too!
Okay, so what does that have to do with sleeping? Everything! Since we started eating clean, I sleep through the night! Through the night! I might still wake up occasionally and look at the clock but then I am right back to sleep. But mostly, I just sleep four 7 or 8 hours. Oh bliss!!! I am refreshed in the morning instead of dragging around. Seriously, if you are a bad sleeper, you know how much you yearn for that feeling!
So, you interested? You want to try this clean eating thing? Some people dip their toe in and ease into it. Not me! It's all or nothing with me. But you can go more slowly. Whatever works for you.
So I found www.TheNakedKitchen.com and that's my main resource for meal planning. Check it out. You don't have to do all your shopping at Whole Foods either. It's a great store and has lots of options, but something else my friends know about me is that I'm cheap. So I buy bulk steel cut oats at Whole Foods, because they have the best price. But the majority of our food comes from Trader Joe's, Giant, and the local Farmer's Market. But you can do this just shopping at your local Piggly-Wiggly too.
So maybe you've heard, shop the perimeter. That just means don't go in the center where all the packaged stuff is. Buy fresh produce. If you can't get fresh, buy frozen. And read the labels. The easiest thing to consider is if it has more than 5 ingredients, don't even bother trying to sound out all those words. Here's an excerpt from www.thegraciouspantry.com that sums it up well.
- Eat Lots Of Plants – Eat food that is straight from nature. (Some people say “as close to the way nature made it as possible”. But I think that leaves too much wiggle room – in my humble opinion) Eat mostly foods that are off a tree, bush, plant or vine, and you’ve pretty much got it covered. The idea is to stay away from anything that humans (food corporations) have altered in any way.
- Include Meats - Eat meats that are whole and straight from the butcher. Don’t buy pre-packaged meat products because you never know what’s in them. When possible, buy whole meats and grind them yourself. You’d be surprised what’s in ground turkey meat! You can also select a few turkey breasts and ask that the butcher grind them for you. Many butchers are more than willing to accommodate.
- Enjoy Grains - Eat grains that are still complete and haven’t been broken down into “glue”. Stick to brown rice, whole wheat and other whole grains.
- Read Labels I don’t know how many breads I’ve picked up at the store that say they are whole grain. But when I take a look at the ingredient list, white flour is the second ingredient after whole wheat flour!
- Eat Fewer Ingredients. Try not to purchase foods that have more than 3-6 ingredients in the ingredient list. And be sure you recognize each and every ingredient. If you find a “mystery ingredient” such as “spices”, contact the company! Ask them what they consider to be spices. If it’s anything other than honest-to-goodness herbs and spices, avoid it! And remember, if you can’t pronounce it, it probably shouldn’t go into your body.
- Eat 5-6 small meals per day. This may seem like a lot at first. But remember, you are eating smaller portions. If you really have a hard time with this, prepare your regular three meals and a snack for the day, and divide lunch and dinner in half. You’ve instantly got 6 small meals!
One other thing about eating... I read that you should pair a protein with your complex carb when you eat. Always. So an apple with a piece of cheese, a handful of almonds with some berries for a snack. For meals, grilled chicken with your grilled veggies, black beans with brown rice, that kind of thing. Pretty easy to remember! We even eat pizza, baked goods, and treats. We just have learned to make them in a different way. A whole wheat pizza with chicken, barbecue sauce, fresh pineapple, fresh mozzarella and red onion... how does that sound?!
Do you have to exercise? Well, eating clean isn't about that, but because I feel better (I really do!) I have the energy to get out and walk. And that's my exercise. I try to walk about 3 miles a day. Usually half of that at lunch time and the other half after work. Some days I might walk a little more, and sometimes I do less. Occasionally not at all, but I try to limit those days. I know I need to add some other exercise to my routine but for now, this is what I am getting into my schedule.
So what are the benefits of eating clean? I sleep; I have energy; and oh yeah, I lost 17 pounds and my husband lost 30. (*Update 4 OCT - I have now lost 23pounds!) We lost it slowly - a pound or so a week. And we eat three meals and two or three snacks a day. Every day. And we don't eat any cardboard fake diet foods. Just whole, nutritious stuff. It's awesome!
People see me and notice the weight loss and the first thing they ask is how I did it. Well, I didn't do it by "going on a diet." I did it by making a lifestyle change. Eating clean is not a quick fix diet. Don't expect that. It's just a different - better - way of eating. I had heard for years that you can't diet, you have to change how you eat. I admit, I never really understood that. Now, I do. I totally get it! Do we ever "cheat"? Yep. Occasionally. Some information I've read says you can cheat once a week. I would say I cheat more like once a month if that, and then it's just one thing, not a whole meal. That's why it's a lifestyle... you make it work with your life.
Sunday, September 26, 2010
The Time of My Life...
It's that time of year when parents across the country are dealing, for the first time perhaps, with children leaving from home to go to college. A friend who is going through this for the first time indicated, "I miss the mommy years!" You know, I do too. Which got me to thinking...
When my husband and I were first dating, it was exciting to talk to each other and get letters (yes snail mail!). Our courtship was actually mostly long distance as he was stationed in California and I was in London for the majority of it. But it was exciting! And I loved that stage in my life!
Then we got married. And that was all new and exciting! We were transferred to Athens, Greece, and essentially had a three year honeymoon. How bad can that be?! I loved that stage of life.
Then #1 son arrived. And we became parents! How fun! How exciting. We loved every one of those years. Within two years, his sister arrived on the scene. So for the next 18 years, we were in the "parent mode" constantly. It was fun! These were the mommy years, and they were great. I loved that stage of life.
A couple years ago, son and daughter each moved out. It was a crazy summer. Dear husband was transferred to DC, son moved to PA, daughter went off to college. We sold a house in one town and bought one in another. When I arrived there it was just dear husband and me. Three bedrooms but no one to fill them. A new phase... how would this play out? This was the "dreaded empty nest" I had heard so much about. For years our lives had revolved around soccer games, cheer camps, school board meetings, youth group chaperoning... what would we do with ourselves?
So here we are in this stage of our lives. I will admit, we are one of the blessed couples. We woke up one morning after relocating to DC and discovered it was just the two of us. We looked around... We looked at each other... and said, "Hey, I remember you!" and better yet... we discovered we still like each other. Oh, yeah, we still love each other too, but we LIKE each other. We have embarked on yet another phase of our lives. And it is awesome. It is exciting! I love this stage of life!
When my husband and I were first dating, it was exciting to talk to each other and get letters (yes snail mail!). Our courtship was actually mostly long distance as he was stationed in California and I was in London for the majority of it. But it was exciting! And I loved that stage in my life!
Then we got married. And that was all new and exciting! We were transferred to Athens, Greece, and essentially had a three year honeymoon. How bad can that be?! I loved that stage of life.
Then #1 son arrived. And we became parents! How fun! How exciting. We loved every one of those years. Within two years, his sister arrived on the scene. So for the next 18 years, we were in the "parent mode" constantly. It was fun! These were the mommy years, and they were great. I loved that stage of life.
A couple years ago, son and daughter each moved out. It was a crazy summer. Dear husband was transferred to DC, son moved to PA, daughter went off to college. We sold a house in one town and bought one in another. When I arrived there it was just dear husband and me. Three bedrooms but no one to fill them. A new phase... how would this play out? This was the "dreaded empty nest" I had heard so much about. For years our lives had revolved around soccer games, cheer camps, school board meetings, youth group chaperoning... what would we do with ourselves?
So here we are in this stage of our lives. I will admit, we are one of the blessed couples. We woke up one morning after relocating to DC and discovered it was just the two of us. We looked around... We looked at each other... and said, "Hey, I remember you!" and better yet... we discovered we still like each other. Oh, yeah, we still love each other too, but we LIKE each other. We have embarked on yet another phase of our lives. And it is awesome. It is exciting! I love this stage of life!
Saturday, January 16, 2010
Jay-Bird
Today is the second memorial service for my dear nephew Jason, who passed away on Dec. 20 just 6 months before his 30th birthday. As a family, we were able to gather together last week to bid him farewell in our hometown. His mom (my sister) wanted to spread some of his ashes on our mom's grave. Those of us who could get there gathered at the grave site. It was a gray, wintry day. My sister-in-law, she is awesome, had arrived early and shoveled a path through the 6" or so of snow. My dear husband offered a simple prayer that spoke volumes about how we were all feeling in struggling to understand this loss. Then my sister, her daughter, and husband spread some of Jay-bird's ashes. We stood there in the quiet, all grieving in our hearts, tears welling in our eyes, or just running down our faces, not a sound. Not even a whisper in the trees. The gray sky hung low overhead. As we turned to walk away, my attention was drawn to the sky. A small sliver of sun somehow shone through that blanket of snow clouds. Just a small glimmer of our mom? A bit of a twinkle from Jay-bird? Or both?
A couple days later my niece posted a picture on her facebook page. She had been skiing in Wyoming that weekend. The picture on the front page caught her eye. It was a bright red cardinal sitting on a snowy branch. Her grandmother (my mom) had always loved birds, and especially cardinals. Then she read the caption. The picture was taken over 1500 miles from there in a small suburb of Cleveland... the suburb where we were bidding our farewells to Jay-bird.
I don't know what you call it, but I call that hope.
A couple days later my niece posted a picture on her facebook page. She had been skiing in Wyoming that weekend. The picture on the front page caught her eye. It was a bright red cardinal sitting on a snowy branch. Her grandmother (my mom) had always loved birds, and especially cardinals. Then she read the caption. The picture was taken over 1500 miles from there in a small suburb of Cleveland... the suburb where we were bidding our farewells to Jay-bird.
I don't know what you call it, but I call that hope.
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